Haha no worries mate, I was in the same position as you once,
Bumpers cost me £400 all in, front one was a black rep type one from eBay for about £90, rear bumper again fro
EBay, was just round the corner from me but had parking sensor holes which I guess put people off, that cost me £60, the grilles for the front cost mr about £100 all in from sere motors on her, painting was £150 as I have a very good mate that works at a spray place and could fibreglass the parking sensor holes.
Wheels with spacers and tyres cost me £500 from Projex,
And yep it's the hicon gt's I have, they are brilliant, only notice their stiffness on majorly potholed roads, apart from that they are really comfy, back is all the way down now with adjusters out and front sits just high enough to not scrub 2 up,
Remap was the best buy, I would do that first, I personally haven't noticed any difference with the rarb so I wouldn't buy that again, but that's probably due to my heavy front end,
Hope this helps