DV popping out of charge pipe I can see, but popping out of the TIP....? any pressure coming out of the DV has no restriction going into the TIP so shouldnt be able to provide any force to push it out? you wont even really need a jubilee clip on there for that reason - just the friction of the rubber should be enough to hold it in place, I would think the clips are just put on there for good measure... very strange that this has happened in eyes!
If the TB was sticking then the pressure would likely build up in your charge pipes and if anything was to blow I would expect it be an intercooler hose, or the DV being pushed out of the charge pipe.
Regarding the smell of fuel - as was said, I'd expect the engine would see silly lambda values if being starved of air and would adjust fuelling to suit. Even if it was running very rich, unless you were standing still, I cant imagine the vapours coming back into the cabin from the exhaust?
Check down drivers side wing under bonnet - there is a black box with three hoses coming up out of it - I once had a stink of petrol and no power, one of these hoses had popped off and my car was pissing petrol all over the road! check they are all secure is my 2 pence worth!