So ok, here it is.
I got 5Q1 module from Golf 8 - 5Q1 953 549 F, with heated steering wheel option.
I repined it using Golf 8 diagrams as I got it from Golf 8, and You never know. Also as I had Skoda Kodiaq 5Q0 module installed before, I will not write from which pin to which I pinned wires as wiring already was not like from factory...
Repined connector now looking like this:
Pin 1 - Red/blue(Positive from fuse box for heated steering wheel)
Pin 4 - Brown (GND)
Pin 5 - Violet (LIN from BCM - T73C/54) [This I was missing, as did not have this wire at all]
Pin 6 - Red/White (Positive from fuse box)
Pin 8 - Brown (GND for heated steering wheel)
Pin 9 - Yellow (SIG- from AirBag module)
Pin 10 - RED (SIG+ from AirBag module)
Pin 11 - Black/white (SIG from engine control unit)
Pin 12 - Violet/Blue (LIN from Gateway)
blue/violet wire (this one was going from J587 - Selector lever to old 5Q0 steering control module) this need to wire to BCM T73c/24.
Leftover Can High, Can Low just take out or isolate.
And from beginning I did not have black/green, black and violet/red (this I was needed), so not sure to which diagrams to relay on.
Coding is done trough Adaptations in 09 module under "SMLS" adaptations.
Also in Adaptations > Lenkstockschalter > Verbauort Lenkstockschalter, change from CAN to LIN
And finally it works.