I might have misread your post, but by the sounds of it you've put your hub nut on with 230nm + 90 degrees? I'd say you've overtightened it by a considerable amount, which might be where the noise is coming from. You 'shouldn't' be able to crush the tapered bearings that sit in the hub, but I'm not sure whether that still applies after what you've put them on with.
The reason why it's tight when you remove it is that it's had x number of years sat in the same position. For most bolts the torque required to remove them is far in excess of that needed to tighten them.
Personally I'd release the nut, give the driveshaft a tap to dislodge it a tiny amount, then do the tightening procedure again. At least if nothing else than to see if it gets rid of the noise.
The reason why it's tight when you remove it is that it's had x number of years sat in the same position. For most bolts the torque required to remove them is far in excess of that needed to tighten them.
Personally I'd release the nut, give the driveshaft a tap to dislodge it a tiny amount, then do the tightening procedure again. At least if nothing else than to see if it gets rid of the noise.