ive got 195/45 15 tyres on my motor. it hasn't been lowered or nothing, but the ride feels really harsh on the back end. i.e. i can feel every single bump. do you think if i put 195/50 15 on the back it would feel a bit softer? or maybe even 205/50 15? also, i'm just about to service it. what oil do you think i should use. i was thing 10w40