You've got a pretty similar set of mods to me there (brake pads, R32 ARB, DBM (altho mine's an ECS), B5 v2 TIP) so if it feels and behave like mine then I'd say you've got a nicely rounded daily/fast road car there. I'm the same as you, don't want to go too far cos you end up sacrificing comfort and/or practicality a bit.
Only other thing I'd suggest is a rear ARB - with the front being a bit stiffer you may find that while enjoying the extra front cornering grip that the rear feels a bit loose. I went for the Whiteline 24mm adjustable one and set it to the stiffest setting. DPM Performance do them for around £165 I think.
Did you get it dyno'd at Bills? Just out of interest.