Will check fuses tonight. HAve also noticed that the led light for the alarm on the drivers door does not flash? Could this be related?
 
Ive got everything working now (touch wood it stays that way). Check the connection between the door and the car. The rubber hose has a connector block. Make sure its twisted in place. (I had taken mine out to check and didn't put it back in properly) thats why my mirrors and led didn't work. Try that and see if it makes a difference.
 
When you lock the car with the fob the LED doesnt blink unless you hold the lock button on the key fob for a longer period of time. This then arms the alarm.

I had an immobiliser fitted to my car and that ahs an LED on it too which blinks as well.