Craig
I did read on some Passat forum, of a
problem (affecting Passats, obviously) where the selctive unlock and similar features stopped working. The relevant ECU (I think the central convenience module) seemed to get slightly screwed and not recognise some of the settings.
It seemed the cure was not only to disconnect the battery, but short the +ve and -ve leads battery together to discharge and reset the ECUs...
I keep meaning to do it on mine, as the selective unlocking doesn't work; with vag-com I can either set it so all doors unlock on first keyfob click, or that only the driver's door does (even with repeated clicks). Whichever setting I choose, the selective unlock will not work, which sounds like the symptoms I've read about. Haven't done it yet because I haven't got the radio code, keep meaning to go to a VW dealer and get it !