Thanks all for your feed back I guess this is the end of this thread if you have managed to read upto this page well done you have done it you won hahaha, on a serious note we have leaned it's either a tuning-box or remap, although the tuning-box did not work in my case due to something I haven't figured out yet, it could work for you I know it has worked for others.
So the lesson leaned here is not to be afraid to try something new, don't always follow the crowd