It is the injectors, mate my car did the exact same thing your describing. Bucking from 4k rpm onwards regardless of gear, i then installed pump and car would run to 5k rpm then just start dying. With absolutely no codes unless it threw me into limp mode. Give APD a call.
Yep this is also a possible cause. Its very difficult to be 100% sure the injectors are at fault until they have been swapped and this is a very costly thing to do. £400 for injectors and minimum 3 hours labour.
If it were injectors there would almost certainly be some misfires showing up on VagCom and there are NONE, which SUGGESTS that its not injectors. It doesnt mean its NOT injectors tho.
All your suggestions are greatly appreciated by the way !!!!!
I still want to get this sorted but Im just getting really tired of it now
Its probably something simple, its just a case of finding it.