Ure right i found it after lifting the car and removing the plastic cover, if you have the car infront of you its left side cmose to bumper. My Phone is at the moment on charger 2% but i will try to take a picture later.
Problem is that pin 1 of 4 have cable damaged only isolation left on it. Tried to connect the ends but one of the end is sticking out of the connector like 3mm.