Changing my brake pads on the weekend, are there any do's and don'ts, sorry if this is a stupid question but its the best place to ask 
Modern pads have anti squeal backing so you don't need copper slip. Use the old pads to lever against when returning the piston. Gives better load displacement.
Still always use copper grease.
As its for anti seize not anti squeal.
If you need to ask may be you are not the best person to be changing brake pads.
As above really, however I would seriously recommend getting a piston wind back tool, they are less that £20 and make the job so much easier and quicker.. Plus reduces your chances of damaging the seal..
Cant say I've ever seen pads sieze.
As for pins, yes copper slip those, I was reffering to the copper slipping padss comment.