Bit of a **** map on vw's part then lol.
At those sort of speeds (70-80 motorway) the AGG is totally in it's element and should be super responsive. Tickling the throttle should work smoothly and really flooring it even in top gear without bothering to change down an AGG should pretty much take off. Mine does. (when it's not cutting out... will get to the bottom of that this weekend)
From your symptoms I'd be considering overfuelling, and wondering about quality/timing of sparks or airflow restrictions. So if you have ignition components available, swapping might be worthwhile, and likewise cleaning out TB/checking air filter's not blocked and MAF's playing nicely. If it was an old school carb engine, I'd probably be having a look at the vacuum advance, too...
I don't see anything much wrong with the OE map tbh when run with standard box and engine... I quite like the torque down low where it's useful in real life...