thanks for the comments guys!
"jabbathehut" first i cleaned my car by hand using....... Fairy Liquid to get all the old wax and stuff off crazy i know but supposed to work! then i used
1) Meguiars Stage 2 Polish
2) Chemical Guys EZ Creme Glaze
2) Chemical Guys JETSEAL 2 coats left on the whole car for 20 mins (and yes it did rain)
3) Poorboys p21s Carnuba Wax
4) Meguiars Hot Rims on the wheels
5) Chemical Guys New Look Trim Gel on the Tyres
6) Meguairs Glass Cleaner on the windows
7) Meguairs NXT Speed Detailer on the door jams
8) Meguiars Tech Protect on the dashboard and plastic trims inside
9) Meguiars Metal Polish on the exhaust